There are many a person who LOVE to shoot off at the mouth. Verbal diahrrea and such pours from the head cavity. Usually, it's the harmless rants that procure feelings undesired. That certain many a person will begin speaking casually about a topic, move into a rant, then rampage, and before you know it, they are trying to murder someone else mentally.
Those feelings can't be healthy. No one ever said, "Say EVERYTHING that comes to mind." Unless that person was a psychiatrist. There is normally a general agreement between human being, consisting of being kind to one another face to face. We as a single specie, don't like to wage wars, personal or nation-wide [they're on your side]. When a rampaging mental lunatic come pillaging through your life with words of hatred and anger, they probably don't mean it. They are probably just blatantly spouting out any obscenity or vulgarity that comes to mind, because the MAN got them down.
So here's what you do about a situation with a nutcase.
Ask them if they are happy. Once in a blue moon will they say no, but most of the time, they will stop, say yes, and begin to think. After about ten minutes, they will either be crying or asking you the same question. No one likes that question when they are in a defensive state of mind, but it attacks every desire one has, and internally flips them over. Asking if one is happy is like asking if they will tell you their weakness, and of coarse no one wants to tell you that, so they say, "Yes."
Let them rampage and fiddle fart, but keep your mind cool, and you WILL prevail, whether you're happy or not.
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